Before you read anything, I'd like you to know that this is my opinion and everyone is allowed to have their own,right? So.. No judgement,okay? :)
Face it.
Sometimes guys just say nice things and sweet promises to make the girl to feel good and keep her occupied for a while.
He doesn't really have to mean it because he and she knows that it's partly not true and probably impossible anyway.
Eg. "I'll love you all my life unconditionally" - FALSE
"You're the most beautiful girl I've ever seen and ever will." - FALSE
"Why would I look at other girls when I already have one as beautiful as you?" - FALSE
And a lot others. Just hope you get the picture,alright? :)
In the end, the girl will be the one to still remember his promises when he probably doesn't even remember the things he said.
Because, she trusted him.
Those sweet words are only said to add more love to the relationship. It doesn't need to be true and will only end up as JUST sweet memories.
Love comes and goes. That's REALITY, like it or not.
The good feelings from those sweet words will last for a while. She will maybe tell it to her girl friends and/or sisters and feel happy about it. Well.. That's just about it.
Conclusion? Face it. He and she knows for a fact that the words are not literally true.
But, enjoy the moments when you're embraced by the nice feelings triggered by your hormones. It doesn't come often.
Okay, all this sound a little sceptical. I know. Maybe I am.
Just expressing what I think. This blog is called Ekspresi nyata after all.
It's kind of true too. Don't you think? ;)
Yup, Yana, I agree with you. Usually those sweet words at the beginning of relationship. Dah last last tu, hmmm. But, there is one in a million guy who's sincerely say that to a woman he loves, I believe that.
ReplyDeleteIs one of them shah? ;p
ReplyDeleteHope so.. :D