A woman's wings are passed on to their children from the moment she's called 'Mother"

Have you ever felt that one day you wake up, that feeling of love just disappeared?

How did love even occur actually? Does it just happen? In one second?

Just suddenly,you love that someone?

A teacher of my sister once said,

"Ter-NOKTAH-nya cinta tatkala terlafaznya ijab & kabul."

Okay, probably an exaggeration. It sounds good anyway. :)

To love is to marry,right?

But to marry means, the life you're living is not about you any longer.

Children are your top priority and to give them your best is your goal.

Your new promotion doesn't mean more money to spend for your fun no more, but for your family also.

If your child grows up to be a disaster, it's partly your fault.

If you really want to marry someone.. Try to sit back, and think.

"Am I really up to this?"

If yes, then go ahead. If no, then try to convince yourself before you really do it.

Because there'll be no turning back, no undo.

Marriage is about responsibilities, and also love.

Try to picture it like this.

When you're afraid in the night and there's suddenly a blackout with a terrible storm outside.. You can't stay cowardly in your room. You'll have to at least pretend to be strong because your children are depending on you.

You can no longer hold on to your mother's hand until she turns the lights back on.

You are the mother. :)

My friends, I know all you are going to make good mothers someday. ;D