Nature of us

TEENAGERS. The nature being of them is to have a 'companion'. More like a temporary one.

For what point? For fun and entertainment. Because EVERYBODY else does it! Because it's a trend. When asked where is the relationship going, both would seem rather blurred and start to think.

Maybe some will say "anywhere!" but some probably wish to settle down together.

A few days ago, I overheard some friends of mine persisting another friend to tell them who this guy likes(this guy is our classmate). It was kind of funny after thinking about it for a while. These such things seem so important to teenagers, don't you agree?

Okay, it is the HUMAN nature for us to LIKE the opposite sex. Normal, nothing wrong about that. But our religion has taught us to manage this feeling and learn to control it for better things.

The consequences of not following this guidance of our religion?

The obvious one. Baby dumping.

Isn't it sad? Don't people have compassion anymore? Where are their conscience? What have become of us?

There are more than 10,000 registered illegitimate babies. And they are the REGISTERED ones! NOT including the ones thrown away.

When I have a baby.. I'd like him/her to be the product of love from me and my husband.

When I have a baby.. I'd like him/her to be from the blessings of our beloved god, ALLAH swt..

When I have a baby.. I'd like my beloved husband to share the wonderful feeling of holding the newborn..

When I have a baby.. I'd like my parents to be there to share the most beautiful gift of Allah swt to me.

When I have a baby.. I'd like to capture it in my mind as the most precious time of my life and never let it fade..

When I have babies.. Well.. That's a different story. :P

Anyhow, I'd like my baby to be born under a secured legal and official wedlock.

Bertawakkal lah kepada Allah swt bahawa Dia yang Maha Mengetahui apa yang terbaik untuk hamba-hambaNya, dan sesungguhnya apa yang telah ditetapkan kepada kita itu pastilah yang terbaik untuk kita.. (>.<)